Ethical Non-mongamy

This survey-based module is a guided self-reflection designed to explore how you relate to love, desire, autonomy, honesty, and emotional responsibility—before conversations turn into rules, labels, or negotiations.

Inspired by the foundational themes of The Ethical Slut, this module isn’t about convincing anyone to practice non-monogamy. It’s about increasing self-awareness, clarifying values, and noticing where cultural scripts may be running the show without your consent.

Through a series of scaled questions and open reflections, participants examine:

• Beliefs about love, sex, and commitment

• Comfort with autonomy and negotiated agreements

• Approaches to honesty and difficult conversations

• Relationships with jealousy, insecurity, and self-regulation

This module is best used as a starting point—for individuals, couples, or therapeutic work—to surface patterns, growth edges, and unspoken assumptions. Discomfort is normal. Curiosity is encouraged. Perfection is not required.

If nothing else changes, you’ll leave with better questions—and that’s usually where real change begins.